Simply by changing your habitual vocabulary, you can instantaneously change how you think, how you feel, and how you live.

Sometimes, not getting what you want can be the most valuable experience of your entire life.

I naturally end up looking for things to be grateful for. It doesn't mean I don't sometimes feel angry or fearful but because I'm wired for positive emotions, net, I end up treating others and myself better.

Life happens not to me but for me

It's a good idea not to major in minor things.

You could be winning and feel like you're losing because the scorecard you're using is unfair.

People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed. Similarly, when someone is failing, the tendency is to get on a downward spiral that can even become a self-fulfilling prophecy.