The trick is to begin looking for the grace hidden beneath the struggle.
Good friends don't let you do stupid things.
I'm so proud of you for changing and getting your life straight with god!
You are a son to me, that to my father I couldn't be. I love you.
Someday, you will find the one who will watch every sunrise with you until the sunset of your life.
Make the lie big, make it simple, keep saying it, and eventually they will believe it.