Stop giving energy to the things you don't want.
Everything that is fear cannot be love, and everything that is love cannot be fear.
Your imagination creates the inner picture that allows you to participate in the act of creation.
Healthy thinking is a habit, just like neurotic thinking is a habit.
You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.
Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?