There are only two states of being in the world of codependency - recovery and denial.
Wendy KaminerWhat makes fantastic declarations believable is, in part, the vehemence with which they're proffered. Again, in the world of spirituality as well as of pop psychology, intensity of personal belief is evidence of truth. It is considered very bad form - even abuse - to challenge the veracity of any personal testimony that might be offered in a twelve-step group or on a talk show, unless the testimony itself is equivocal... Whatever sells, whatever many people believe strongly, must be true.
Wendy KaminerLike heterosexuality, faith in immaterial realities is popularly considered essential to individual morality.
Wendy KaminerThe press and the public like certainty and affirmation of popular biases. But real science thrives on the capacity for doubt.
Wendy KaminerIt's easy to sell good news like this, and the authors confidently rely on classic fallacious arguments. They argue by declaration, which is what makes the books so amusing. In matter-of-fact, authoritative tones, the authors tell us how plants and human beings exchange energy - or they describe what angels look like, whether or how they're sexed, how they communicate with human beings, and how they differ from ghosts. Readers might be expected to wonder, How do they know?
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