Thereโs a redemptive power that making a choice has rather than feeling like youโre an effect to all the things that are happening. Make a choice. Just decide what itโs gonna be, who youโre gonna be, how you are going to do it. Just decide. And from that point, the universe will get out of your way.
Will SmithWhen you're talking to a person, it only matters what they are perceiving. You only need them to perceive you as a loving husband. You don't necessarily need to be one. That's always a good road, if you actually are one. But what people are perceiving will dictate what their life is, and ultimately what your interaction is.
Will Smith