When you study great teachers... you will learn much more from their caring and hard work than from their style.

Using no control and using humor will build a relationship and make a dent to where the client puts the counselor in their quality world and then begins to relate and seek out the counselor. Effective therapy begins with the acceptance of the therapist into the client's quality world.

What happened in the past that was painful has a great deal to do with what we are today, but revisiting this painful past can contribute little or nothing to what we need to do now.

When we label anyone 'bad', we will have more trouble dealing with him than if we could have settled for a lesser label.

We can teach a lot of things, but if the teacher can't relate by talking to a group of friendly students, he'll never be a competent teacher.

No human being will work hard at anything unless they believe that they are working for competence.

Sex is on the minds of most people, especially those who shouldn't be having it.