One of the saddest sentences I know is "I wish I had asked my mother about that." Or my father. Or my grandmother. Or my grandfather. As every parent knows, our children are not as fascinated by our fascinating lives as we are.
Good writers are visible just behind their words.
Writing is hard work.
You learn to write by writing.
Be grateful for every word you can cut.
Be yourself and your readers will follow you anywhere. Try to commit an act of writing and they will jump overboard to get away.