The coming of honor or disgrace must be a reflection of one's inner power.
The drum is surely the lord of music, is it not?
Those whose character is mean and vicious will rouse others to animosity against them.
The petty man is eager to make boasts, yet desires that others should believe in him. He enthusiastically engages in deception, yet wants others to have affection for him. He conducts himself like an animal, yet wants others to think well of him.
The person attempting to travel two roads at once will get nowhere.
If what the heart approves conforms to proper patterns, then even if one's desires are many, what harm would they be to good order?