Sometimes, things need to come undone for better things to come together.

Gratitude is a choice. Happiness is an attitude.

Get in the habit of writing down three things you're grateful for every day. Studies show that in a two-minute span of time, done over 21 days in a row, you can actually rewire your brain. Your brain starts to retain a pattern of scanning the world for the positive versus the negative. Seeing things in a frame of positivity and gratitude is a muscle. You can strengthen this muscle through practice.

Get support and be surrounded by people who love you. Sit with the discomfort and the emotions instead of distracting yourself and numbing the pain, or it will just haunt you in another form in the future. Don't be afraid of the pain and darkness. There's information there. There's a lesson to be learned. You can use the experience as a catalyst for growth.

You cannot teach ambition.

Hold yourself on your own. A man's job in a romantic dynamic is not to be your butler, bank account or your father.

Strive to be authentic, not perfect.