We should be encouraging people to earn a lot of money. I do not know one wealthy person who does not spend money - and most of them employ other people.
Those who earn money know best how to spend it.
Run a home like you would a small business and treat it with the same seriousness.
The first rule of management is delegation. Don't try and do everything yourself because you can't.
There's no getting away from it: you have to clean.
I have always liked clothes - throughout my life, my saving grace has been my own vanity.