Useless pursuits and conversations always about the same things absorb the better part of one's time, the better part of one's strength, and in the end there is left a life grovelling and curtailed, worthless and trivial, and there is no escaping or getting away from itโjust as though one were in a madhouse or prison.
Anton ChekhovIf you can't distinguish people from lap-dogs, you shouldn't undertake philanthropic work.
Anton Chekhov