Leaders think and talk about the solutions. Followers think and talk about the problems.
Brian TracyThe kindest thing you can do for the people you care about is to become a happy, joyous person
Brian TracyFive Great Habits for Better Relationships: acceptance (smile each time), appreciation (say thank you to everyone), admiration (compliment people on their appearance or clothing, etc.), approval (praise immediately, specifically and repeatedly), and attention (be a good listener).
Brian Tracy