When youโre focused outside and believe that your problem is caused by someone else, rather than by your attachment to the story youโre believing in the moment, then you are your own victim, and the situation appears to be hopeless.
Byron KatieIf I say, if I talk about, 'I want to be enlightened...' it implies a future. And there isn't any.
Byron KatieThe ability to understand the cause of your own suffering gives you the ability to understand ours.
Byron KatieWhen you're operating on uninvestigated theories of what's going on and you aren't even aware of it, you're in what I call "the dream." Often the dream becomes troubling; sometimes it even turns into a nightmare. At times like these, you may want to test the truth of your theories by doing The Work on them. The Work always leaves you with less of your uncomfortable story. Who would you be without it? How much of your world is made up of unexamined stories? You'll never know until you inquire.
Byron Katie