Text is, in some ways, on the way out, unfortunately. There are dating sites now that are just pictures.
Christian RudderBecause the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.
Christian RudderI know that shorter messages are better in terms of reply rate. The optimal length is something like 50 characters. Characters, not words.
Christian RudderThere will be more words written on Twitter in the next two years than contained in all books ever printed.
Christian RudderUse correct grammar and punctuation. Do not use net speak, like WOT, W-O-T or U. Those messages get a lot lower reply rate.
Christian RudderA great piece of advice for online dating is to stand out from the crowd. So greetings like "hello" and "hi" are very common. They do less well than things that are a little bit quirky or a little bit weird, like "howdy" or "holla." The rarer your salutation, the better it does, in general.
Christian Rudder