Going to a site with more users seems obviously better to me, but at the same time, having a bland, middle of the road profile with bland, middle of the road pictures seems like a bad strategy to me.

Going to a site with more users seems obviously better to me, but at the same time, having a bland, middle of the road profile with bland, middle of the road pictures seems like a bad strategy to me.

Text is, in some ways, on the way out, unfortunately. There are dating sites now that are just pictures.

Kind of paradoxically, men are very open minded or very even handed with their votes of women.

I know that shorter messages are better in terms of reply rate. The optimal length is something like 50 characters. Characters, not words.

Because the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.

Twitter, Reddit, Tumblr, Instagram, all these companies are businesses first, but, as a close second, they're demographers of unprecedented reach, thoroughness, and importance. Practically as an accident, digital data can now show us how we fight, how we love, how we age, who we are, and how we're changing. All we have to do is look.