One person simply can’t be all things to another person – sexually or otherwise—and unmet needs, unfulfilled desire, and unexplored possibilities are prices we pay to be in LTRs (long –term relationships). Monogamous, polyamorous, Femdom, or whatever: All couples people walk around feeling a little unfulfilled. (Single people, too). Because no one gets everything they want.

But it doesn't matter what you're doing, it matters how you're doing it.

You want to help gay kids, you have to reach them in middle school and high school, when they're being bullied.

I don’t understand how real Christians let that little f--ker get away with that.

Yes, yes: Taking out Saddam Hussein means war, and war is bad for children and other living things. I went to grade school in the 1970s, and I recall the poster. But there are times when war is not only a tragic and unavoidable necessity, but also good for children and other living things.

Outing is brutal and it should be reserved for brutes

Don't move to Seattle and write a stupid sex advice column. That's a waste of time and you need to grow up and get serious.