Shouldn't homophobic politicians and anti-gay bullies be presumed to be gay until they get caught up in a straight sex scandal?

I don't think that gay and lesbian relationships are identical to heterosexual relationships. I do think that heterosexual weddings, or at least most of them, are sort of camp pantomimes about male and female sex roles, even if the couple is marrying as individuals and equals.

I got picked on a lot, even by teachers too. I liked to listen to musicals and bake, and my homeroom teacher found out and mocked me in front of the whole class for baking.

A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves.

I don't write about my life in my column.

Every question is a hypothetical question for everyone but the person who asks it.

Bisexuals need to recognize that their being closeted is a huge contributing factor to the hostility they face.