The cultural expectation should be if there's infidelity, the marriage is more important than fidelity.
Dan SavageThe truly revolutionary promise of our nation's founding document is the freedom to pursue happiness-with-a-capital-H.
Dan SavageI don't think that gay and lesbian relationships are identical to heterosexual relationships. I do think that heterosexual weddings, or at least most of them, are sort of camp pantomimes about male and female sex roles, even if the couple is marrying as individuals and equals.
Dan SavageAnd that really captures the difference for the bullied straight kid versus the bullied gay kid, is that the bullied straight kid goes home to a shoulder to cry on and support and can talk freely about his experience at school and why he's being bullied. [...] And I couldn't go home and open up to my parents.
Dan Savage