In a high-IQ job pool, soft skills like discipline, drive and empathy mark those who emerge as outstanding.
Daniel GolemanThere is zero correlation between IQ and emotional empathy... They're controlled by different parts of the brain.
Daniel GolemanOverloading attention shrinks mental control. Life immersed in digital distractions creates a near constant cognitive overload. And that overload wears out self-control.
Daniel GolemanEmpathy and social skills are social intelligence, the interpersonal part of emotional intelligence. That's why they look alike.
Daniel GolemanThere are a host of surprises among longer-term meditators, like a boost in the immune system from a day of practice, which is not seen in beginners, and a rapid recovery from stress or pain. At the "Olympic level" we find there is no anticipatory anxiety when the stress of pain is certain to come, and no lingering aftereffects - unlike the stress reactions in ordinary folk.
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