Getting offended is the bait of Satan for the believer.
Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
We should be more concerned with reaching the lost than pampering the saved.
A large oak tree is just a little nut that refused to give up.
Jesus paid a high price for your peace. Don't give it away.
The Bible says we need to love our enemies, bless our enemies. It does not say we should assume our enemies' priorities.