Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
David McGeeMarriage should not be a goal; it should be a choice. One choice available out of many recognized as valid by society. But it isn't. Not yet. Right now, as far as society is concerned, you are married or you are not yet married. And as that notion becomes further codified our freedom to make other choices steadily erodes.
David McGee