You don't have to be like anyone else. You just need to learn more about your own creative self and start blooming.
If you are unclear about what attitudes you adhere to, you will have a difficult time evaluation which ones are not serving your highest good.
Beliefs that are good promote your potential and enhance your unique special qualities.
Your choice is to be active or passive in your responses
Wisdom comes from reflection.
One is often so busy doing life that it is easy to avoid evaluating whether you are putting your energy in the direction you value most.