You are not a problem that needs solving.
Suffering needs time. It cannot survive in the now.
I have lived with several Zen masters -- all of them cats.
Life is an adventure, it's not a package tour.
You are not IN the universe, you ARE the universe, an intrinsic part of it. Ultimately you are not a person, but a focal point where the universe is becoming conscious of itself. What an amazing miracle.
It's a wonderful thing to perceive the world and to interact with it and with other people and nature from that deep place of utter stillness, where the compulsion to immediately label and interpret whatever arises around you is no longer there.