There is a fine balance between honoring the past and losing yourself in it. For example, you can acknowledge and learn from mistakes you made, and then move on and refocus on the now. It is called forgiving yourself.
Eckhart TolleThe most important healing - realizing who you are. The healing on the outer level is fine, but it's not the essence of healing.
Eckhart TollePeople had been writing to me and saying, "Can you write something for children?" I felt I couldn't quite do it myself because I never had children.
Eckhart Tolle