When you complain, you make yourself a victim. Leave the situation, change the situation or accept it, all else is madness.
Eckhart TolleThere are two levels to your pain: the pain that you create now, and the pain from the past that still lives on in your mind and body. Ceasing to create pain in the present and dissolving past pain - this is what I want to talk about now.
Eckhart Tolle