The joy of Being, which is the only true happiness, cannot come to you through any form, possession, achievement, person, or event - through anything that happens. That joy cannot come to you - ever. It emanates from the formless dimension within you, from consciousness itself and thus is one with who you are.
Eckhart TolleThings and conditions can give you pleasure but they cannot give you joy- joy arises from within.
Eckhart Tolle