Every addiction arises from an unconscious refusal to face and move through your own pain. Every addiction starts with pain and ends with pain. Whatever the substance you are addicted to - alcohol, food, legal or illegal drugs, or a person - you are using something or somebody to cover up your pain.
Eckhart TolleCan you feel that there is something in you that is at war, something that feels threatened and wants to survive at all cost, that needs the drama in order to assert its identity as the victorious character within that theatrical production? Can you feel there is something in you that would rather be right than at peace?
Eckhart TollePeople don't realize that now is all there ever is; there is no past or future except as memory or anticipation in your mind.
Eckhart TolleIf your relationship to the present moment is not right - nothing can ever be right in the future - because when the future comes - it's the present moment.
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