All you realy need to do is accept this moment fully. You are then at ease in the here and now and at ease with yourself.
Eckhart TolleLove is a state of Being. Your love is not outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it cannot leave you. It is not dependent on some other body, some external form.
Eckhart TolleMost humans live in the mindset that this moment is only important because it's getting them to the next one.
Eckhart Tolle