If we don’t want to define ourselves by things as superficial as our appearances, we’re stuck with the revolting alternative of being judged by our actions.

When people show me clothing that seems very, very feminine, it's hard for me to embrace that, because it just doesn't feel like me.

When the message out there is so horrible that, to be gay, you can get killed for it... we need to change the message!!

I prefer to believe that people are good and honest and respect me enough to tell me the truth. It's not easy to find those people all the time, but they're out there.

I have a great career, and I have wonderful fans who really are supportive and loyal - because I'm not hiding anything from them.

Actually this is really funny - one time she accidentally forgot to leave a note and I had no idea she had even moved. I was living in the house with a beautiful Mexican family for three months before I realized they weren't my cousins visiting from out of town. They were so nice. They called me "Quien es, quien es," which I thought was a beautiful name.

It was so important for me to lose everything, because I found out what the most important thing is, which is to be true to yourself.