The trick is simply to avoid jerks. There are lots of them out there. Most people are unhappy.
Frederick LenzHave lots of plants in your house. Nature and plants understand something about stillness and silence. As you interact with the green world, you will find a peace will enter your life.
Frederick LenzI recommend computer science to people who practice meditation. The mental structures that are used in computer science are very similar exercises done in Buddhist monasteries.
Frederick Lenz