Most couples have not had hundreds of arguments; they've had the same argument hundreds of times.
Gay HendricksThe best attitude to take toward back talk is to reach out and embrace it with love, compassion, and understanding. No need to criticize it for its shortcomings or to waste time in recriminations. Just give a loving nod and a hug to any back talk you get, and move on to the joyful creation of your fulfilled life.
Gay HendricksOne of the hallmarks of an evolved person is the ability to tell the truth with no fear of punishment or expectation of reward
Gay HendricksIt is not love that is to blame. But each of us has resistance to the very love we desire. We also have resistance to the space and independence we need. So we go back and forth, not letting ourselves have one or the other. It all boils down to this: Are you willing to have your relationships be a pathway to fully revealing yourself and your potential? If you answer is Yes, real intimacy can be yours on a daily basis.
Gay Hendricks