Hoping a situation will change keeps you at a distance from your true feelings-sadness, anger, fear. Each of these feelings is best appreciated up close. Feel them deeply, and they will cease to bother you. Hope they'll go away, and they'll bother you all day.
Gay HendricksRule Number One is this: If youโre open to learning, you get your life-lessons delivered as gently as the tickle of a feather. But if youโre defensive, if you stubbornly persist in being right instead of learning the lesson at hand, if you stop paying attention to the tickles, the nudges, the cluesโboom! Sledgehammer.
Gay HendricksAre you willing to take the Big Leap to your ultimate level of success in love, money, and creative contribution?
Gay HendricksIf you want to create vital, long-lasting love, you must become a master of verbal & nonverbal appreciation
Gay HendricksOne of the first things a relationship therapist learns is that couples argue to burn up energy that could be used for something else. In fact, arguments often serve the purpose of using up energy, so that the couple does not have to take the courageous, creative leap into an unknown they fear. Arguing serves the function of being a zone of familiarity into which you can retreat when you are afraid of making a creative breakthrough.
Gay HendricksNobody knows but you what it is thatโs sacred to you as far as what you want to manifest in your life. You need to do it by your own chosen standards. Your life does not need to look like anybody elseโs life. Itโs a commitment that youโre making to a magnificent life measured by your own chosen standards.
Gay Hendricks