The biggest reason for divorce is marriage.
No one has the right to shake his finger in your face.
Better to discuss everything out in the open while you're in love, then if or when the relationship sadly ends. It's called Full Disclosure Before The Fact.
Before you go out there and try to conquer the universe... get your act together.
Live well - respire frequently.
If your songs connect with the fans and they pump their fists in the air and go "Yeah!!" that's when a song really works. That's the electric church of it. The glory hallelujah of it.