Although it's not useful to drown in despair, it's also not useful to keep a 'positive attitude' when this means concealing or denying real emotions.
Harriet LernerWe will be in tune with our bodies only if we truly love and honor them. We can't be in good communication with the enemy.
Harriet LernerKeep in mind that the tendency to be judgmental - toward yourself or another person - is a good barometer of how anxious or stressed out you are. Judging others is simply the flip side of judging yourself.
Harriet LernerMany of our problems with anger occur when we choose between having a relationship and having a self.
Harriet Lerner