Things don't change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.

A leader's responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.

One of the worst things you can die with is potential.

If you continue to blame other people for “making” you feel guilty, they still have power over you, and you are saying that you will only feel good when they stop doing that. You are giving them control over your life. Stop blaming other people.

Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.

When we begin to set boundaries with people we love, a really hard thing happens: they hurt. They may feel a hole where you used to plug up their aloneness, their disorganization, or their financial irresponsibility. Whatever it is, they will feel a loss. If you love them, this will be difficult for you to watch. But, when you are dealing with someone who is hurting, remember that your boundaries are both necessary for you and helpful for them. If you have been enabling them to be irresponsible, your limit setting may nudge them toward responsibility.

The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love