In the process of planning and having a wedding, I forgot there would actually be a marriage, a union of minds, bodies, souls, and issues that would come together as soon as the ceremony was over.

We can think, speak, and bring the best possible outcome into existence by focusing on where we are going, not on where we think we are.

You are always being prepared for something better or protected from something worse.

The beloved is one who nurtures you, trusts you, supports you, encourages you, loves you without conditions. That's you.

Who you are is strong enough to bare your pain

Never judge your clarity based on someone else's response.

What do you do when it seems as if people want to stay in their pain. They have a story to tell and they tell you every chance they get. Well, believe it or not, they may like where they are. Our job is to leave them there. You can point the way out of pain, but you cannot force them to get out. You can support the move beyond their limitations, but you cannot make the move for them.