In the process of planning and having a wedding, I forgot there would actually be a marriage, a union of minds, bodies, souls, and issues that would come together as soon as the ceremony was over.

As you move through the day, be aware of how you treat yourself. Be aware of what you do to and for yourself, because you set the standard for others. As you grow in your awareness of how you treat yourself, you will probably become aware of the example you have set for others. You may realize that the time has come to set a new example.

You cannot get to where you are going until you have learned all there is to learn about where you are.

When your way doesn't work, don't be disheartened. You must be willing to try another way. A closed door doesn't mean you have been cut off permanently. It is a challenge, an obstacle, a tool to be used.

We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.

Their issues are not your issues.

I've seen the good, the bad, and the ugly. Lived it and I'm still here to talk about it and help someone else if I can.