Each of us was born to fulfill a divine purpose. As we open our hearts and minds to a new way of being, the purpose of our lives unfolds organically.

All things are lessons that God would have us learn.

What will support any relationship is clear, complete and conscious conversations when upsets or breakdowns occur.

I have a body, but I am not my body. I have a face, but I am not my face.

Well the beauty of 'Iyanla: Fix My Life' is that men are in every show. To our surprise, some of the deepest healing demonstrations have been with the men - the sons, the fathers, the husbands - because they agree to participate with the wife or the daughter or whatever it is we are looking at, and it is there.

Speak and live in simple sentences. Bring closure -- put a period to -- those experiences that you don't want to carry on forever and ever. Use commas in those places where you're still growing... and use exclamation points at the end of every lesson.

We gotta be willing to seek direction ... we've gotta be willing to look within.