In corporate culture, in sports culture, in the media, we honor those who win at all costs.

We talk about how many women were raped last year, not about how many men raped women.

In real life, women dont enjoy being degraded and treated like objects/receptacles.

Ben Roethlisberger is a proven winner in athletic competition. But the measure of a true leader is how they conduct themselves 24/7, not just during a winning touchdown drive or a goal-line stance. Leadership isn’t something that gets switched off because the game clock expires.

The argument that 'boys will be boys' actually carries the profoundly anti-male implication that we should expect bad behavior from boys and men. The assumption is that they are somehow not capable of acting appropriately, or treating girls and women with respect.

Typical news accounts and commentaries about school shootings and rampage killings rarely mention gender.

There's been an awful lot of silence in make culture about this ongoing tragedy of men's violence against women and children... we need to break that silence, and we need more men to do that.