Surrender is a positive, healthy state. Being a surrendered person does not mean one is beaten down and so hopeless he or she has "given up." It's quite the contrary. Surrender is a state of living in the flow, trusting what is, and being open to serendipity and surprises.

It's good to be incompatible with your partner sometimes. It causes your souls to stretch & grow - the point of a soul mate!

We have two choices when things pile up at work or we're surrounded by energy vampires who leave us feeling depleted. We can get frantic, hyperventilate, shut down, and become reactive. Needless to say, these responses to stress just make us more stressed. Surrendered people have the ability to pause, take a deep breath, and observe.

Being a control freak makes us tense, stressed out, and unpleasant to be with.

We energetically attract what we haven't worked out in ourselves. When vampires evoke intensely judgmental reactions from us, it could be they are mirroring aspects of our personalities we don't like or completely understand.

No matter how well-meaning your intention, doing too much is not always an act of love but of sabotage.

Illness sets the stage for the opening of our hearts.