If you want those around you to act in a more loving and conscious manner, act in a way that helps them to do so.

Love means tearing down the separateness and the boundaries between your heart feelings and another person.

Happiness is experienced when your life gives you what you are willing to accept.

I am freeing myself from security, sensation and power addictions that make me try to forcefully control situations in my life and thus destroy my serenity and keeps me from loving myself and others.

If you want those around you to act in a more loving and conscious manner, act in a way that helps them to do so.

If your washing machine stops working and you're addicted to appliances that work, you'll get upset and you will suffer. If you prefer that your appliances work well, then when your washing machine breaks down you won't compound the problem by superimposing your uncomfortable emotions on the situation.

It is only your mental habits and your selected memories of how you think things are that keep you from moulding things in your life in a more harmonious way.