Asking others for input puts you in the driver's seat, and may feel less awkward than having to watch yourself on video.
Laurie HelgoeIntroverts like being introverts. We are drawn to ideas, we are passionate observers, and for us, solitude is rich and generative.
Laurie HelgoeIntroverts process information internally, and we don't like to express our thoughts until they are fully formed.
Laurie HelgoeThough introverts are drained by interaction, we can take immense pleasure in watching the scene around us.
Laurie HelgoeA shy kid might look longingly at other kids playing in the schoolyard, afraid and unsure about how to approach them, but an introvert is perfectly content on her own.
Laurie HelgoeIntroverts keep their best stuff insideโthat is, until it is ready. And this drives extroverts crazy! The explanation for the introvertโs behaviorโand there must be an explanation for this behavior, say the extrovertsโis that he or she is antisocial, out of touch, or simply a snob.
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