You need to be able to express your resentment and sense of loss in a way that doesn't damage your partner.
Mallory OrtbergYou can't prevent a possible future closeness between your upcoming child and one or more of their grandparents.
Mallory OrtbergYou, too, will someday die, perhaps under inconvenient circumstances, at a time when you do not particularly wish to, and for causes that you cannot yet predict.
Mallory Ortberg