There has to be some kind of personal hygiene bar that a person needs to clear in order for a relationship to be successful.

Acting politely in front of someone black and/or gay and then making horrible claims about their intelligence or worth as human beings after they leave the room is not kindness - it's hypocrisy.

Reconciliation is not possible when one party asks the other to obliterate all signs of their relationship.

As long as you don't think he's just pretending not to mind for your sake, it sounds like he has truly accepted that blow jobs are too difficult and painful for you to perform, and he's still very satisfied with your sex life. Take him at his word.

I don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.

There's simply no way you can tell a woman you work with that you disapprove of her relationship with her adult child, no matter how much you think it would be better for him to move out.

An adult woman should not be so possessive of her own birthday that she begrudges her friends the chance to get married on the same day.