Acting politely in front of someone black and/or gay and then making horrible claims about their intelligence or worth as human beings after they leave the room is not kindness - it's hypocrisy.

You can't prevent a possible future closeness between your upcoming child and one or more of their grandparents.

Letting events end is not rude. Everything ends.

Don't badger people without children into admitting the secret desire for children you're sure they have to you! Don't badger anyone! Leave the badgering to the badgers.

Reciprocating oral sex is, in general, a very good idea!

If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

Most of us, however committed we are to our ideals, will find ourselves every now and again reading an attention-grabbing headline from the Daily Mail or some other lowest-common denominator. That's not the same thing as frequenting a site like the white supremacist Stormfront.