LGBT youth face a much higher risk of violence and homelessness after being rejected by their family of origin.

It should go without saying that you are not doing anything wrong by having sex in your own home, and based on the care you've taken to keep things relatively quiet it's unlikely that you're violating any city noise ordinances.

You can't prevent a possible future closeness between your upcoming child and one or more of their grandparents.

It's so difficult to figure out how to offer support and also be honest with someone you love who's in a damaging relationship without making them feel defensive and retreating even further into isolation.

I don't think unfriending your old crush on Facebook will do much other than remove him from your Facebook feed. Don't beat yourself up over what you dream about; there are a lot worse things that could slip across the transom of your unconscious mind than an old high school crush who was always nice to you.

If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

Worrying seems like a fairly natural state of being for a parent, so feel free to worry as much as you want.