Arm yourself with as many options as possible before making your next move.

We are all going to die, sometimes even in the middle of a lease.

If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

You need to be able to express your resentment and sense of loss in a way that doesn't damage your partner.

I don't think unfriending your old crush on Facebook will do much other than remove him from your Facebook feed. Don't beat yourself up over what you dream about; there are a lot worse things that could slip across the transom of your unconscious mind than an old high school crush who was always nice to you.

Don't beat yourself up over what you dream about.

Reconciliation is not possible when one party asks the other to obliterate all signs of their relationship.