Arm yourself with as many options as possible before making your next move.

So many people choose silence after the immediate wake of a death out of fear of saying something out of turn or "bringing up bad memories" that bereaved people often feel forgotten.

It's so difficult to figure out how to offer support and also be honest with someone you love who's in a damaging relationship without making them feel defensive and retreating even further into isolation.

Many fathers go their entire lives without announcing how sexy their son's old girlfriends are.

Some struggling marriages can be salvaged with hard work and counseling; others should be dismantled and stripped for parts.

It is so tempting to return rudeness with rudeness!

As long as you don't think he's just pretending not to mind for your sake, it sounds like he has truly accepted that blow jobs are too difficult and painful for you to perform, and he's still very satisfied with your sex life. Take him at his word.