To stop challenging someone from using anti-gay language simply because they persist in using anti-gay language strikes me as a defeatist approach.
Mallory OrtbergI don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.
Mallory OrtbergYou don't need to hide the fact that you're in recovery, but you don't have to share your history of addiction with acquaintances at work, either.
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