"Not being virulently and overtly racist against black people" and "treating gay people like human beings" are necessary conditions of greatness.

To stop challenging someone from using anti-gay language simply because they persist in using anti-gay language strikes me as a defeatist approach.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.

It's so difficult to figure out how to offer support and also be honest with someone you love who's in a damaging relationship without making them feel defensive and retreating even further into isolation.

Some people give gifts in order to bewilder, confuse, and manipulate their recipients.

I'm of the opinion that it is always a kind and appropriate decision to get in touch with someone who's lost a loved one to remind them that you're thinking of them and have fond memories of the deceased.

You have a wonderful opportunity here to not care about something that doesn’t matter to you. Please don’t miss out on it.