I do not think it is selfish to want to donate a kidney "only" to family members.

A child is not a bargaining chip or a learning tool. Your focus, if you adopt a child of a different race, should be on nurturing and protecting your child from bigotry, not deploying him or her as an anti-racist Mr. Fix-It.

You are allowed to draw lines even if your feelings are irrational. Part of the marvelous business of being an adult human is that you get to set your own boundaries for whatever reasons you like, without appending a sensible rationale to them.

There are alternatives to pregnancy if you want another child.

Reciprocating oral sex is, in general, a very good idea!

"Not being virulently and overtly racist against black people" and "treating gay people like human beings" are necessary conditions of greatness.

Some struggling marriages can be salvaged with hard work and counseling; others should be dismantled and stripped for parts.