I do not think it is selfish to want to donate a kidney "only" to family members.

You who have suffered so much do not want to be with the kind of person who makes "black widow" jokes to deal with an uncomfortable, painful moment. You should be with a person capable of great compassion and understanding.

"Not being virulently and overtly racist against black people" and "treating gay people like human beings" are necessary conditions of greatness.

There are alternatives to pregnancy if you want another child.

You have a right to be treated professionally at work, and it's your supervisor's job to make sure all their employees can perform their duties comfortably and safely.

I'm of the belief that dating "potential" is almost always an exercise in frustration.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.