I do not think it is selfish to want to donate a kidney "only" to family members.

Don't beat yourself up over what you dream about.

"Not being virulently and overtly racist against black people" and "treating gay people like human beings" are necessary conditions of greatness.

We are all going to die, sometimes even in the middle of a lease.

I don't think it's a requirement that a happy, fulfilling relationship also provide the best sex of all time.

Tenancy laws can be so complicated; I want to make sure OP is protected as much as possible.

You're right to want to minimize your compulsive physical behavior in the workplace before it bothers your co-workers, but I hope very much you can also give yourself credit for the work you're already doing.