After living with their dysfunctional behavior for so many years, people become invested in defending their dysfunctions rather than changing them.
Marshall GoldsmithIt is a whole lot easier to see our problems in others than it is to see them in ourselves.
Marshall GoldsmithThe great Western disease is, ‘I'll be happy when... When I get the money. When I get a BMW. When I get this job. When I get the relationship,’ Well, the reality is, you never get to when. The only way to find happiness is to understand that happiness is not out there. It's in here. And happiness is not next week. It's now.
Marshall Goldsmith