The great Western disease is, ‘I'll be happy when... When I get the money. When I get a BMW. When I get this job. When I get the relationship,’ Well, the reality is, you never get to when. The only way to find happiness is to understand that happiness is not out there. It's in here. And happiness is not next week. It's now.

The best way that we can begin to produce positive change is to make peace with what is in ourselves and others, and then work to move forward and make life even better.

After living with their dysfunctional behavior for so many years, people become invested in defending their dysfunctions rather than changing them.

Anybody can change, but they have to want to change.

Great leaders encourage leadership development. By openly developing themselves

When we do what we have to do we are compliant. When we do what we choose to do we are committed.

The more we are committed to believing that something is true, the less likely we are to believe that its opposite is true, even in the face of clear evidence that shows we are wrong.