Conflict in close relationships is not only inevitable, it's essential. Intimacy connects people who are inevitably different.
Martha BeckOnly since the Industrial Revolution have most people worked in places away from their homes or been left to raise small children without the help of multiple adults, making for an unsupported life.
Martha BeckYou are lovable. Can you show me any baby in any nursery who isn't priceless? No. There's no such thing as a worthless newborn. And the essential value that was born into brand-new-baby you can never be extinguished. This means that even if you think you're being absolutely honest, believing yourself to be anything other than astonishing, incomparable, and infinitely precious makes you a habitual liar.
Martha BeckCaring for your inner child has a powerful and surprisingly quick result: Do it and the child heals.
Martha Beck